I just feel the need to let a few things out. My wife of over 6 years started playing Evony and is literally on the game all day and night. I've seen her get out of bed very early in the morning to be on her game. Her phone is always with her, even if we're out to eat. I have felt so alone that I even offered to get an account and play with her, just to feel like we're doing something together. She said that's an invasion of her privacy. This makes me feel like there's some sort of emotional affair happening. Soon after she started playing she said she felt a disconnect from me, said there's just no connection left. She has asked for a divorce. I'm devastated, it came out of the blue, and I'm left searching for answers. If I mention the game it leads to arguments, so I stopped doing that. She's also an alcoholic so she does have issues with addiction. I'm not going to bad mouth her as she's the most amazing woman ever when she wants to be, and addiction is very real. I found this site and hope that it can help me to better cope with what's going on. She told me the other day that I'm probably the best guy she's ever dated. Said I'm a gentleman, and very caring/giving. Said I've never betrayed her trust with affairs, and that I've never emotionally or physically abused her. She made me out to be so amazing, yet wants to discard me like garbage. It doesn't make any sense to me. I don't understand. If we have conversations it's usually about her game. She'll giggle and smile on her game, if I talk to her the smiles go away abruptly, and I feel like a nuisance to her. I think she is depressed about some things as well and the game started as an escape, but has quickly replaced me, and everything else as her reality. I feel like I'm the game she can spend 15 minutes with a day, Evony is her real life now. Our marriage was never perfect, but it's always been good. I feel so powerless with all of this. Sorry for the rant, my emotions are pretty much everywhere right now. Thank you for allowing me the time to let a little of this out.