Hi, I am new to this community.
I'm 23 years old, almost 24. I played a lot of games since I was a kid. Few years ago I started to play Evony. I was hosting my own alliance with lots of people in it. When I talked to those people, I realise most of them were a lot older than me. Married, had kids. I couldnt believe that people that old would still game so much, even when they have kids. I told myself I dont want to be like them when I get married. I played Evony for 4 months I think and then I quit. Since then I played lots of different games. I use another game to get rid of another game addiction. But I always feel empty at the end of the day not doing anything useful.
Today Evony is starting a new server. I really wanted to start playing again and sign up, then I google "Evony" "Addiction". Thats how I came to this site. I saw how it is ruining marriages. I really dont want to walk the same road. So I guess I want to thank this community for showing me the road I shouldnt walk.
I already gave my old playstation/NES away, hide all my other game consoles. Deactived my facebook account, so I wouldnt go there to play facebook games. Took all my money from my pokeraccount, so I wouldnt poker anymore. It is/was not easy. I took all these steps very slowly.
I hope I can fully quit gaming. I started jogging few weeks ago. Also trying to read more books. And focus on my study. And spend more time with my girlfriend outside, instead staying inside.
I hope I can inspirate another addict out there.
God bless you all,
Dash
~ I can do all things because Christ gives me the strength. Philippians 4:13~
congrats on finding the wisdom to quit while you're way ahead. i myself only just quit recently. i'm 30 now. i wish i had quit when i was 24. good job. i can't take those six years back (ten, if i consider how long i had been gaming). at any rate, you can rest assured that the next decade of your life will be more fruitful without gaming than with them.
"Through passion, I gain strength. Through strength, I gain power. Through power, I gain victory. Through victory, my chains are broken."
--from the Code of the Sith
Congrats to you too. It's never to late to quit. Even when you seem at the end of the road
~ I can do all things because Christ gives me the strength. Philippians 4:13~