Well, it's time to ask you gamers for help...
As most of you know, Liz's 21 year old son Shawn, shot himself on Thankgiving in 2001.
Irregardless of the cause, to this day Liz still has no idea what the final straw was that made him pull the trigger that day. We do have some clues, and believe that it had something to do with an in-game relationship gone bad, but nothing else.
I flew up to visit Liz a couple months ago, to meet her and her family and to spend a few days going through Shawn's PC looking for any clues which could answer the question of 'Why.'
I sorted through his EQ directory, there were no log files, I sifted through every folder, every cache file, every email, everything I could find that might point give some clues, but could come up with nothing.
While I was there, we even worked with John Smedley, COO of Sony Online Entertainment and at 1am on Sunday morning, John had them restore most of Shawn's deleted characters from tape. We went through each of his characters looking for clues, but again, could not come up with anything solid.
So here is what we need.
I will put together his list of character names and servers and post them here in hopes that one of you might have known him, or in hopes that you might know someone who knew him.
We do know that his play was almost exclusively on Vallon Zek and we do know one of his guild names he was in. That will be posted as well.
Folks, if you can put aside all the differences here for a bit, just consider that for whatever reason, Liz's son cut off all contact with his family for the last six months of his life and on one of those days when family should be together, Liz had to force enter his apartment and found him after it was too late. She, like any parent, just wants to find out what happened and what he was like his last few months so she can find some closure to this whole tragedy.
If any of you have any extensive time on Vallon Zek, or know someone else who does, please check back to this post within this next week for the details.
Also, if any of you know of a site that has an extensive player history for Vallon Zek similar to the site below for players on the Tribunal server...
...please let us know.
At this point, the only ones who can help are you folks.
Please contact either Liz or I directly with any questions or information. I will add Shawn's character names as soon as possible, but probably by the end of this coming week.
Ron
Ron Jaffe AKA Diggo McDiggity
eMail: eqaddict@cfl.rr.com
Discussion Board Administrator
Everquest player from July, 1999 to April, 2002
Over 4,900 Hours Played
Co-Founder of OLGA and member since 2002
I'd be glad to help, but I'm afraid I won't be of much use as I do not play on any of the Zeks (HATE pvp...yech!).
That being said, I can ask around on some boards and try to dig up information. We can now communicate across servers through ;tell and through the new chat channels.
Ron, you have my e-mail address, so e-mail me what you've got so far and I can start poking around as soon as I have the info.
There is no conflict of interest here for me. No differences to put aside. Any issues I have with people or concepts are totally separate from finding out what happened to Shawn. Not to mention that in light of something I just did, I probably owe it to Liz to aid this search however I can. If she chooses to tell you what I'm referring to, that is up to her.
Tino, but some call me Chris
I'm afraid I can't do much, either, but my thoughts are with Liz. May whatever you find bring peace, rather than more heartache.
I hope that anyone who knows anything will have the courage to step forward.
Lisa
One more point.
Any information provided by you folks, once I've posted the character and server lists, will be treated with the utmost discretion if you desire it. Just send me emails directly to my email address below. It is a personal email that only I have access to.
Ron
Ron Jaffe AKA Diggo McDiggity
eMail: eqaddict@cfl.rr.com
Discussion Board Administrator
Everquest player from July, 1999 to April, 2002
Over 4,900 Hours Played
Co-Founder of OLGA and member since 2002